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One of the sincere practices of love is "Growing Together"
Often times we see partners who claim to love each other but they don't see the need to grow each other.
You are about rounding off your Doctorate Degree while the so called love of your life is a common SSCE holder and it doesn't prick you.
That's not too fair! Build each other. Relationship and marriage is all about two becoming one growing together.
Learn to grow and groom each other.
Except on few occasions where your spouse decides not to grow himself or herself academically or go further in career, but if that's not the case... Build your better half. Balance your relationship and make your marriage a citadel of excellence for your children to emulate.
Its a good bench mark for every family when future generations surpasses their parent and family legacy while fulfilling their own dreams.
Support your spouse, encourage them to grow . Pay for her tuition fee, wait outside to pick her up after lectures. That's a huge push for her to stay committed. Never get envious of any academic attainment your partner brings home rather let it motivate you. LEARN TOGETHER...
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Wednesday, September 19, 2018
#Episode3 WHEN LOVERS GET IMPLICATED (continued)
Continuation #Episode2...
But what I don't understand is... Sister you used to be friendly and so accommodating back then as a single living in the girl's hostel but now you're a hostile and a jealous tigress 🐯... You've been Implicated!
Sir, what has changed, Where is this wind blowing from? You had no problem with trusting people, your friends even complained you trust people and strangers too much back when you were a bachelor... Why have you suddenly become so Insecure, you're handsome yet you feel so low and never enough?
Right Now, you are prayerless and so wordless because of your newly found prince or princess... But from the beginning, it was not so! You have been Implicated.
Until the crown is your fit, until he/she is a partner you can keep, you will always sink.
I'll be talking about
IMPLICATING YOUR IMPLICATED RELATIONSHIP in the next episode 3b.. #Staytuned
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#Episode4 WHEN LOVERS GET IMPLICATED (continued)
Popular music legend Tu Baba also sang about it... Once you enter the place (wrong relationship/partnership), you're implicated.
Everyone now knows you as vicious and a nag. It hurts you so deep because you have never imagined ever becoming that kind of a terrible wife you saw in home videos while growing up. You are terrible at home, terrible with the neighbors, terrible at so many things. You couldn't have predicted such a future let alone having it as your reality.
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However what hurts you, even more, is "the heart ♥ of a goddess and the smiles of a damsel 👸" that you once had. You used to be the epitome of beauty within and without those days and all your friends envied and respected you for that. But it's all gone now- Everything has changed! People no longer see that quite, loving, and industrious Bimpe in you... All thanks to your irresponsible, promiscuous, cheating night crawler of a husband; but they don't know he caused it and you end up taking all the blame for everything (sobs)
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Your world is broken into two equal halves with decades of unanswered questions lying fallow in between... Can I ever be free from this demon of rage, hate, and jealousy, will I ever have my dream home and be happy again or should I just file for a divorce and bear my cross...?
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These are the trauma you go through all alone after every night of #Wrestlemania with a once down to earth, loving and faithful man that you married... (double sobs). Be sensitized!!!
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THE 3 THINGS I SAID THAT MADE HER REDUCE HER SUITOR'S LIST
[Behind the Scene]... Permit Me!
A young lady who wanted to get married at a time came to me but she didn't come alone.
She came with several names of different men (different color, size, shape, and height).
Her Suitors List was longer than a bishop's chain. I marveled!
Finally, she was done listing and she asked me to please pray... That was when I burst into laughter 😂 😂 😂
Where will I even start from with all these names I asked?
So I engaged her in a brief word that changed her life for good.
NUMBER ONE
Your relationship with people (men especially) should have boundaries.
Not all compliments from a man mean "Be my date or let's start something together"...
If you don't understand this, you would have given 3months of your time, energy, resources and your heart to a man before realizing he is not even in love with you.
Gbosa! Gbosa! Gbosa!!! Back to square one!
NUMBER TWO
Not every nice guy deserve to have your mobile number 📱or contact details.
A guy offered to pay for your fair on a bus and you feel you owe him one Year Gratitude Plan.
081074... fiam, you have started typing on his phone prim-prim. You even ask; Is it ringing now? 😂 😂 😂
Stop that rubbish. You don't owe anyone such intimacy. What do you do?
Sincerely appreciate the person, say thank you on the spot and walk away. Ahan.
Thank You Should be Enough!
After all, some of us do such charity every week for both males and females and we don't even wait to hear their thank you.
NUMBER THREE
Your Purpose should Come before your Partner.
By the time I spoke to her on Purpose, by herself she canceled a lot of names on the list. The once long list became short.
Your Purpose is a natural relationship insecticide. If you spray it around your life constantly, it will kill every mosquito (partners who only come to suck from you for the night and disappear by the morning).
3weeks they are with you, the next... they are off to another street or location to suck from your best friend, course mate, roommate etc.
They are called "Players" but if you engage your environment constantly (Be purposeful inside and out) they wouldn't dare come close...
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Her life changed. I didn't have to pray on a long list anymore, everyone went home happy.
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God has lined the right people in our destinies. When we walk in His Will through prayers, Word, Counsels... Wrong people don't stand a chance. They are filtered.
There are still several ladies with LONG LIST out there (so confused), please try to get this article around.
This way, we will control the rate of divorce too.
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#Episode 6 Living With Your Ex-... "Past Glory Partners"
Marriage can be hell and it can also be heaven on earth. It's all a matter of choice.
The Shit you take while courting will take your Peace when you're married. If you can't correct him/her that relationship is not yet healthy.
Love doesn't make us fools, love comes to make US full |Of His Glory, Power, Wisdom, Grace|... For emptiness and fear is not one of the virtues of genuine love. |1st John 4:18|
RESTRUCTURING YOUR RELATIONSHIP IN 2018...
1. Run To God;
Sister... If any part of that your relationship is still living on past glory... Run 🏃 to God.
How can you be married and still be missing your Ex- ? It's an error & that rubbish must stop this year! If your new guy is not enough to make you smile, then why move on with him down the aisle?
Are You A Past Glory Partner?
We have them outThey gather past relationship pictures of their Ex-, travels, beach shots and malls hangout to stay happy with their legally married partner.
"No matter how caring you are, you can not be as caring as my Ifeoma- former soulmate" Says the husband!
Wake up 👆 please!
There is more to love experience than Ifeoma's touch. Stop visiting past pictures and previous life events to keep up with life in your relationship and marriage. Your best days are not behind you, your best days are before you... Run to God for a Word!
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#Episode2 WHEN LOVERS GET IMPLICATED (AARRRRGGGGHHHH)
What's the cry about in this episode? Okay!
Have you seen partners who suddenly develops strange and unusual behavior in their marriage which was never a part of them the whole time they were single or even courting? Someone just got IMPLICATED.
They both cried...Please don't give me a Crown that doesn't fit, don't give me a partner I cannot keep. It is very easy to throw all your Home Training, Good Morals and Sense of Humor all away every time you miss your Way (wrong relationship)
Aunty, recently you have been noticing this unusual "Rage" burning in you and it's fueled by Jealousy- you just can't stand the sight of him with another lady be it his colleague or cousin, you don't bloody care!
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There is another young man too, almost every evening when she is busy in the kitchen, you quickly draw her pattern and commence your CID operation on her smartphone. From text messages to call history to WhatsApp chats. What are you looking for Mr. man-boy? You even become disappointed eventually when you can't find anything that suggests she is Unfaithful to you! Ahan... You have to see #Episode3 to know where this is going... Haha
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#Episode 14 Letter to "A-BOO_BAE_Chukwu (read with your partner)
"Submit yourself therefore into God, resist the devil and he will flee from you. James4:7"
To all "A-BOO_BAE-Chukwu" out there that are faithfully serving the Lord. Bro James said we should first submit ourselves unto God.
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You may love her but I bet you if he or she is not personally submitted to God, you may rob each other. E don do me before too, after your eye Don clear, you go come they cry like squirrel... Nyaan-Nyaan_ scru-scru!
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You are broken, 😔, can't pray any longer, you now sleep in fear, every scene cause you a sharp pain when every you remember.
Listen Bae_booz... "There is not a beautiful relationship like the one with partners that are individually broken in heart for God"
Does she love God? if you can not answer that question on her behalf then there are moments you must reserve.
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I remember one time like that... I told #LoveSong "please let me know the moment you start nursing any lush or fleshy desires in your heart and she nodded OK!
We cannot afford to be funny.
"It takes self-submitted partners before a relationship can truly please the Father"
But God Himself didn't design marriage to suddenly jump at you so you still will have to hang out with each other. Hmmm!
I will be starting a new series titled;
"THE TWO-TWO BOTH OF YOU IN THE ROOM ALONE" #Episode15.
It will be very raw and practical. I will show you in 60 seconds how your back can land to the ground and him on top of you doing press up. Be sensitized!!!
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#Episode 7 Secrets Of Healthy Marriage (Read before marriage)
Be PRIDING Dey Go...
Let's discuss pride; not as trait today but as a phase. Pride is a pleasure for everyone to savour. Mostly gained from achievements and qualities, its the satisfaction we derive from our efforts in life.
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You are not fit to be called a husband if your wife is not the most beautiful woman in the world to you yet. When 3 or more animals like Lions gather, it is referred to as Pride. Why then do we have herds of youths that wander about life in self pity and low esteem?
Some ladies are not even bold enough to talk about their illiterate parent before a rich man's son just because they want the relationship so badly! That's rubbish must stop after reading this piece! Inugo?
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Hanty Rosa, Bloda Donatus!
It's time to do great things in small ways this year. You are awesome, your stature is the best design ever, respect it! You are not too fat and stop thinking that you are look like a sugar cane.
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Be proud of your course of study, flip your phone with a proud heart regardless of its model. Either by plane or by train, traveling remains traveling. Be willing to add value to every junction of life you arrive.
Be proud of your nation, it's part of having Self-love for your future... Your relationship will work better when you become better.
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#Episode 12 Responsible Responsibility of Real Men
FOR REAL MEN ONLY...
Giving money and meeting financial needs is not the only responsible responsibility of a man in a relationship. Some partners have reduced or have been reduced to...
"ATM PARTNERS"
Let me quickly drop this on your screen...
"If all you have to offer her is money, then you don't deserve waking up beside her every morning"
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The Bible speaking in Hebrews five verses one and two explains that a man is an ordained priest unto God that has been saddled with the responsibility of making propitiations/sacrifices for men and women including loved ones and members of the family.
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She doesn't need your money right now, all she needs right now is your counsel and your guide. Can you advice her. Can you sit her down and show her a more excellent path to follow. Are you that kind of guy that your #LoveSong can call up in the morning and share her nightmares/dreams with... And she feels safe knowing she has spoken to you?
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The truth is... Even women knows that there are problems in the home that money can not solve, so my question is do you think you have grown into the kind of Man that will gather the whole family in the living room and rebuke strange sickness and diseases, stress and anxiety out of the home for good.
HOW MUCH OF A PRIEST ARE YOU SIR?
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The times are hard and the days are full of evil. Don't just love her, be her protective cover. Be a prince and a priest!
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MY LOVE POEM |Dedicated to struggling Homes/Marriages|
|Dedicated to Struggling Homes and Marriages; May God heal them all |
Marriage is not just about you,
It involves you and others.
Marital demands are high,
Your kids alone can take all your time.
How far do you think you can you go with the kids alone?
If there is a problem in the home, sit up and solve it. You won't last long carrying the whole house on your head- you need your partner's help. You can't afford to go dysfunctional.
I know it's difficult to forgive him,
But that's how you can learn to truly live.
Maybe you haven't noticed, you've not had a good smile in a long time...
Please Go back to him!
Why is your morning now so boring?
You almost can't knot your own time anymore!
"Something is missing or should I say Someone is missing"
Tell yourself the truth this once...
Would you have been this happy in your life if you had married Jane back then? No!
Thank God you finally settled down with Daisy- she changed your life and gave it a fruitful meaning... Please Go back to her!
You both have not gone apart too far,
For richer for poorer remember!
This can work, believe me it's just a storm and it will soon be gone.
Guess What
Love overcomes all odds. Be reunited... Be sensitized!!!
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[Go get yourself pregnant] Men Please Read!!!
HER 👑 TEARS BEFORE DELIVERY...
[Go get yourself pregnant] Men Please Read!!!
When a woman is in travail, she goes through such a level of excruciating pain that quickly erases every moment of pleasure she ever had.
But Jesus quickly added... "As soon as the baby comes forth, all her pain and agony turns into Joy" The pain of the past is easily forgotten when the Joy of the Lord produces strength in you.
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3 Powerful Points Quickly
NUMBER ONE
There is something compelling about "Results" that can change your life, relationship and marriage forever. Just with one result, some people forgot they ever cried.
With one result, you were never betrayed,
you never had that accident, you never failed.
RESULT is an evidence that silences every argument.
NUMBER TWO
Result cancel every Insult:
Don't go about life angry, bitter, blaming every Peter. Try to produce one result no matter how small and the world is yours for the taking.
A spark of light 💡 in the middle of thick darkness is already a celebrity (if you happen to be that spark ✨, you are already a great personality)
NUMBER THREE
There is no Product without a Process; No Result without a Sacrifice:
If you want to shine bright like the sun, you must be willing to burn like it.
Jesus said;
He that believes in me, greater works than I have done he will do... John 14:12
"Your tears before delivery won't be remembered when your baby comes forth"
Go get yourself pregnant; carry something great that can last more than 3generatoins. Elijah carried something beyond the mantle.
Dream as big as the ocean!
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This morning we receive GRACE for great RESULTS in Jesus name. Amen!
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Episode 5 Pleasures and Pains
Sincerely speaking I want out of all this. I want a decent life free of tons of all kinds of commitments (money, time, resources, ideas etc) to strange ladies some I can't even recognize four (4) hours after. I mean I want to be a good father and a great guy to my partner.
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It feels so wrong every time I kiss her forehead in the morning and by the evening the same mouth is trapped inside my secretary; licking and scrubbing all kinds of things... "your world is a mess, but there is still something you can do my friend- Alex abruptly interrupted him as he sips down a chilled fruit wine.
"And what could that be if I may ask enquired Sam...?
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Question!
Can Sam ever undo all his wrongs,
Will Bimpe-The tigress ever get answers to her questions,
What will happen if she knows she is twice as much the reason for her husband's reckless and irresponsible living as much as her husband takes the credit for her own Jealousy and consuming rage.
Can these lovebirds ever fly again???
We will be concluding this dramatic piece that started in #Episode1 come #Episode6 thereafter we will bring on other challenging realities that exist in every relationship whether they be right or wrong.
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#Episode1 I MUST MARRY YOU THIS YEAR 2018 [Singles Read]
Every marriage is a gift from God, what we make of it is our gift to God. How I wish your relationship is just about the title Mr/Mrs. but no it's not- Marriage is more. Why should I strive so hard to bear the title Mrs. if I'll end up the one hissing and wishing again?
"So many SINGLES are rushing to be engaged every Saturday while the MARRIED ones can't wait to go their separate ways"
Watch This...
Saul was a wonderful guy before he became a king but the crown implicated him. Why?
"He was not entirely God's Perfect Will for the throne"
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The Throne may be your destiny, but don't be too quick to wear the crown when you've not been trained on how to control the crowd. The title has it's own battles.
He may be nice, she may be a good listener but if he/she is not God's true intention for your life, you may end up implicated for the rest your life.
In the next episode, I'll be sharing few signs of Implications in your relationship. #Ementorlive
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#Episode 11 What you truly mean when you say Yes!
Relationship in 60 seconds #Episode11
When You Say Yes to him/her, you meant...
I won't be embarrassed by your weakness.
We know that you love her but can you stand HER EXCESSES?
I love you is not a confession,
It's a strong commitment.
It's not a declaration,
it's a clear decision.
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If I tell you the percentage of married men around that cannot walk side by side or hold hands with the wife they married, it will shock you ma. Enough of that! Our parents did it in the past... "Just be going, I'll join you in front"
What rubbish!
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But today is even worse. Truth be told there are so many boy-husbands and several fine face girl-wives in most homes. Come and see how a full grown-up man will treat his pregnant wife. The same woman you impregnated o! Chai.
"she can spite for Africa, are you a black mamba 🐍... You don't know more than to eat and sleep in this house-good for nothing lazy wife... Some men will even ask...
Are you the first person to ever get pregnant?
😱 😱 😔 😔... Young ladies, please shine your eyes, there is more to been a husband than the handsome man, fat pocket you see in every guy. Can he cuddle you despite your salty food? Think deeper and prayerfully ask God to help you make the right choice. Be sensitized!!!
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