[Behind the Scene]... Permit Me!
A young lady who wanted to get married at a time came to me but she didn't come alone.
She came with several names of different men (different color, size, shape, and height).
Her Suitors List was longer than a bishop's chain. I marveled!
Finally, she was done listing and she asked me to please pray... That was when I burst into laughter 😂 😂 😂
Where will I even start from with all these names I asked?
So I engaged her in a brief word that changed her life for good.
NUMBER ONE
Your relationship with people (men especially) should have boundaries.
Not all compliments from a man mean "Be my date or let's start something together"...
If you don't understand this, you would have given 3months of your time, energy, resources and your heart to a man before realizing he is not even in love with you.
Gbosa! Gbosa! Gbosa!!! Back to square one!
NUMBER TWO
Not every nice guy deserve to have your mobile number 📱or contact details.
A guy offered to pay for your fair on a bus and you feel you owe him one Year Gratitude Plan.
081074... fiam, you have started typing on his phone prim-prim. You even ask; Is it ringing now? 😂 😂 😂
Stop that rubbish. You don't owe anyone such intimacy. What do you do?
Sincerely appreciate the person, say thank you on the spot and walk away. Ahan.
Thank You Should be Enough!
After all, some of us do such charity every week for both males and females and we don't even wait to hear their thank you.
NUMBER THREE
Your Purpose should Come before your Partner.
By the time I spoke to her on Purpose, by herself she canceled a lot of names on the list. The once long list became short.
Your Purpose is a natural relationship insecticide. If you spray it around your life constantly, it will kill every mosquito (partners who only come to suck from you for the night and disappear by the morning).
3weeks they are with you, the next... they are off to another street or location to suck from your best friend, course mate, roommate etc.
They are called "Players" but if you engage your environment constantly (Be purposeful inside and out) they wouldn't dare come close...
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Her life changed. I didn't have to pray on a long list anymore, everyone went home happy.
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God has lined the right people in our destinies. When we walk in His Will through prayers, Word, Counsels... Wrong people don't stand a chance. They are filtered.
There are still several ladies with LONG LIST out there (so confused), please try to get this article around.
This way, we will control the rate of divorce too.
Thank you for dropping by! Be sensitized!!!
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